Yup, Mistress gets to dress however She sees fit. i lean more towards the sub having to dress like his Dom chooses.. especially in private :)
Yes!…I mean No..I agree. DO NOT STEREOTYPE ME!
A lesson that we all should learn embarking on this lifestyle. If you think that you can set the terms of the scene, that you can dictate to her, you’re more controlling than subbing. Unless she asks for your input, once you’ve agreed to submit (with appropriate limits! And safe words!) then it is up to her to determine how and what she does. And that is giving up control and that, my friends, is incredibly, insanely sexy.
I call this look “Kinky Casual.” Now if I could just get this instituted around the office…
S has tasked me with finding new locks for my collar and cuffs, to mark our relationship. She wants pink locks because it’s her favorite color. I would love to find at least five keyed alike (8 would be perfect!) Does anyone out there have any recommendations?
A new experience for me last night… S marked me as hers. It’s hard to explain what kind of place this puts my head when I look down at it but I love every second of being her Pet. I truly feel like the luckiest boy in the world to be able to explore all of this with S with my wife’s explicit blessing.
Not much happened on the D/s front this weekend - we were helping S move. I did, however, get to spend all day Friday through Sunday with her, including waking up with her in my arms. As tired and sore as I am this morning, I loved getting to spend so much time with my girlfriend!
There is just something about receiving a gift-wrapped ball gag from your girlfriend that makes a night complete.
It’s hard to describe my night last night.. but the time with S was perfect. I spent the whole night locked up in her room, she teased and played with me throughout the night, finding all kinds of excuses to come upstairs and spend a few minutes before going back down to the party… until around 4 AM when we finally made love and it was amazing.
Today there is a bit of a sense of guilt over my relationship with her but I don’t regret anything. Emotions in a poly relationship are incredibly strange.
The night is yet young… And I am so fucking turned on right now! I am sitting in S’s bedroom, collar, wrist and ankle cuffs locked on, with a dozen partiers downstairs. As the night goes on I expect I’ll be moved from the bed to less comfortable accommodations, but for now I’m enjoying the freedom to text and browse and fantasize. I am sure before long I’ll be receiving orders from S and my wife… And eventually I’ll be locked in her closet, locked to a rail and even more at her mercy!
Best. Saturday. Ever.
So tonight, S is hosting a party. I’ve promised to be there, but last night as she, my wife and I were laying in bed, S proposed that instead of having me downstairs at the party, I arrive before any other guests so she can bind me, gag me, and hide me in her bedroom as private entertainment for her and my wife when they need a break from the social noise downstairs.
I’m both incredibly turned on and incredibly frightened by the thought of being hidden in a closet, tied up and teased for the entire night. Needless to say, I shall be showing up an hour early and with the bag of bondage toys that has made many trips between her house and ours!
Last night was incredifuckingmazingawesomeholyshit. I think that about covers it.
Off to a date with S. Who has asked if I would dom her tonight. I’m kind of excited!
Actually my reward for reaching my next weight loss goal is an Njoy plug! I’ve already got the money set aside, now it’s just a matter of earning it!
Consider getting an Njoy plug. Stainless steel, sexy as hell, and seriously comfy for long-term wear.
My “Uniform” for cleaning last night… harness and collar locked on :)
New record with my plug - 3 and a half hours. Almost all of that with it locked in place (although under my control). I’d like to get a plug made for long term wear (T shaped rather than round bottom) but other than that I’ve told my Princess that my ass is hers to order into the harness and plug whenever she wishes… and next time I’ll give up the keys!
In the end… Not a fan. I can definitely see it as punishment, to get you in the right mindset before a scene… But the actual process, going through the experience, is entirely unpleasant and not something I think I will do again voluntarily.